We’re from Toronto, but in 2023 we moved to Montreal so Daniel could pursue his Master’s in Architecture at McGill, and Virginia could serve as a Catholic military chaplain at the Canadian Armed Forces Leadership and Recruit School.
A few months before our move, we were visiting Montreal and decided to check out St. Ignatius after hearing so much about the parish from the Alpha and Divine Renovation community. We attended the Saturday Vigil and immediately noticed the family room and the pamphlets for the Good Shepherd Atrium—it was clear that this was a place where families were welcomed and supported.
When we moved in September 2023, we settled into new routines but had no real ties to any parish community apart from the military base chapel in Saint-Jean-sur-Richelieu. On weekends when we weren’t at the base, we often chose churches based on whichever Mass time was most convenient. With busy schedules and the news that we were expecting a baby, we tended to prioritize ease over commitment.
As Easter approached, we felt drawn to spend the Triduum at St. Ignatius, sensing it would be something special. On Holy Thursday, we arrived early and were moved by the music ministry during rehearsal. When the Gloria was sung with bells, I (Virginia) remember feeling overwhelmed with joy and, unexpectedly, moved to tears—as if I had just come home after a long time away.
I’ve had some difficult experiences in the Church over the past few years, so I often enter new communities feeling guarded. But the culture at St. Ignatius has been peaceful, joy-filled, and most of all, healing—even in just one year of attending.
After the Easter Vigil, we both knew we wanted to keep coming back. I (Daniel) was struck by how many children filled the pews. Even when they left for Catch the Wave, the church still felt full. It was clear that young people felt welcomed and that the community was glad to have them actively involved in the Mass.
When our baby was born in August 2024, we found it even easier to connect with others. We received so many kind words of congratulations and support. With all of our family in Toronto, those encounters meant so much—they made a real difference.
During my (Virginia’s) maternity leave, Sunday Mass at St. Ignatius became a highlight of my week. Being away from my co-workers—who are like family—left me longing for connection and a place to serve, even in a small way.
In October, when we heard the call for new volunteers in the Emcee ministry, we were curious. We hadn’t seen anything like it at other parishes. Daniel saw it as a way to serve while also growing in presentation and public speaking—skills that are helpful in both faith and professional life. The Church is a perfect place to grow while serving, especially in a community that values kindness, compassion, and mercy. It makes stepping out of your comfort zone feel a little easier.
We’re grateful we accepted the invitation to serve. Although we were hesitant to try something new, especially while still feeling new ourselves, we’ve gotten to know other parishioners through this ministry. It’s made a difference to go to church each week and not just recognize faces, but know the people around us.
Joining St. Ignatius and the Emcee ministry has stretched us in the best ways, and we’re so thankful for the opportunity.
